by Tdarcos » Thu Mar 16, 2023 12:13 pm
Mama Blue wrote: Thu Mar 16, 2023 10:29 am
You guys are being real fucking jerks on the internet.
I hope that doesn't include me; if so, try letting me know where I have acted improperly that I may correct it.
Mama Blue wrote: Thu Mar 16, 2023 10:29 am
So eventually Adam's friends treat me like dirt and drive me away.
Well, that definitely excludes me; I never knew the guy and only found out about him after he died. I had signed up shortly after the tragic incident.
Mama Blue wrote: Thu Mar 16, 2023 10:29 am
Why? Did I bring him up to much? Noel too much? How could it not be on my mind all day every day.
I've had my share of heartbreak and despair, but I can't imagine what you went through. Question, if I may, in order that I might learn something, and you need not answer either or both it if you do not wish to do so. Does the fact he died make it easier, harder, or had no difference? Or the fact it was suicide?
Mama Blue wrote: Thu Mar 16, 2023 10:29 am
Do I not add any humor, wit, intelligence, knowledge or anything to this board?
I believe I have stated as much, and if not, then yes, you did.
Mama Blue wrote: Thu Mar 16, 2023 10:29 am
Do you not have any respect for me as a human being?
I believe I have always been respectful to you. I hope I have, anyway.
Mama Blue wrote: Thu Mar 16, 2023 10:29 am
This could cause someone who was weaker minded than me to go kill my kids and off myself too, but I won't do that...
It was the philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche, who said, "What doesn't kill me makes me stronger." Adversity is the crucible in which strength of character is forged. Too often the adversity of life causes people to turn to addictions or destructive behavior to cope. Some go over the line into madness. Some reach the breaking point and do what he did. And others weather the storm and come through.
Just remember, you are the genetic product of thousands of ancestors who faced horrible adversity, and survived. You come from good stock, but more than anything else, you are a survivor, too. Take pride in yourself, girl, you have faced adversity and defeated it, leaving it to slink away in shame.
[quote="Mama Blue" post_id=135843 time=1678987746 user_id=2759]
You guys are being real fucking jerks on the internet.[/quote]
I hope that doesn't include me; if so, try letting me know where I have acted improperly that I may correct it.
[quote="Mama Blue" post_id=135843 time=1678987746 user_id=2759]
So eventually Adam's friends treat me like dirt and drive me away.[/quote]
Well, that definitely excludes me; I never knew the guy and only found out about him after he died. I had signed up shortly after the tragic incident.
[quote="Mama Blue" post_id=135843 time=1678987746 user_id=2759]
Why? Did I bring him up to much? Noel too much? How could it not be on my mind all day every day.[/quote]
I've had my share of heartbreak and despair, but I can't imagine what you went through. Question, if I may, in order that I might learn something, and you need not answer either or both it if you do not wish to do so. Does the fact he died make it easier, harder, or had no difference? Or the fact it was suicide?
[quote="Mama Blue" post_id=135843 time=1678987746 user_id=2759]
Do I not add any humor, wit, intelligence, knowledge or anything to this board?[/quote]
I believe I have stated as much, and if not, then yes, you did.
[quote="Mama Blue" post_id=135843 time=1678987746 user_id=2759]
Do you not have any respect for me as a human being?[/quote]
I believe I have always been respectful to you. I hope I have, anyway.
[quote="Mama Blue" post_id=135843 time=1678987746 user_id=2759]
This could cause someone who was weaker minded than me to go kill my kids and off myself too, but I won't do that...[/quote]
It was the philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche, who said, "What doesn't kill me makes me stronger." Adversity is the crucible in which strength of character is forged. Too often the adversity of life causes people to turn to addictions or destructive behavior to cope. Some go over the line into madness. Some reach the breaking point and do what he did. And others weather the storm and come through.
Just remember, you are the genetic product of thousands of ancestors who faced horrible adversity, and survived. You come from good stock, but more than anything else, you are a survivor, too. Take pride in yourself, girl, you have faced adversity and defeated it, leaving it to slink away in shame.