by Tdarcos » Sun Jul 19, 2015 7:24 am
RetroRomper wrote:My secret is that I am already wallowing in self misery and will continue to do so regardless of anything I try.
Change the first word to "Your" as a reply to Pinback and I think you have defined his entire existence. It might even apply to me, but...
RetroRomper wrote:Point of the game is to force you to really think about what you need.
You haven't really defined "need." Like with the other thread, if we only ate what we "need," then we could survive on beans and rice, plus water, indefinitely (as in, for decades). But it would probably be boring. I love macaroni and cheese but I wouldn't want to eat it for 3 meals a day or even every day.
So lets look at it this way. You need: a bed, pillows, pillow cases, sheets, a blanket or quilt;a chair; one "pair" each of shoes, socks, pants; one shirt, one spoon, one knife, one fork, one plate, one bowl; food of whatever you eat for however often you shop; and any tools you need to perform your occupation or whatever you do to earn enough to pay your rent/mortgage, heating and cooling, and food.
That is all you "need", but it would be... boring.
Now, add to that the stuff you want to have around to make things easier (like underwear, for example). And that is where you can look for stuff that is not making your life easier or isn't necessary for your comfort or survival. Other things you keep around but don't help you (or your family) are clutter. If you have something, even if you have many of them, and they help you, then they're not clutter. Let me give you an example.
I have a device, about 3 feet long, has a 1" around rod made of solid aluminum, has a rubber-coated magnetized claw on one end and a plastic squeeze handle on the other. Costs 20 bucks at Home Depot, it's called a Nifty Nabber. Actually I don't have one, I have three of them. Much nicer than those cheap folding devices because it will easily pick up 5 pounds and short of rolling over it in a wheelchair you can't bend them.
I use it so I can pick up things, and it is a big improvement when something is beyond arm's reach or is awkward or difficult to pick up by hand when you're in a wheelchair. I recommend them even for people who can walk, because if you ever drop something into a place too small for your arm to reach it, you'll discover it's the best twenty bucks you ever spent.
I have to replace one every year or so because I'm hard on them; if you're not in a wheelchair with a combined 600+ pound weight that can bend or snap aluminum easy, you'll probably get 5 or ten years of use out of one of them.
I don't have 3 of them because I'm a pack rat, I have three of them so I can leave one next to the bed, I can have one in the bathroom, and one in the living room/kitchen (and because occasionally I break one). When I took the four hour pass from the rehabilitation center to come home, it was one of the first things I picked up to take with me. Even my tablet Windows computer, Android tablet and phone charger were second, third and so on.
Now what you have to decide is, are the things you have necessary for survival or convenient and make things easier for you to live.
I have a suggestion on how to decide how to determine that in a separate thread.
[quote="RetroRomper"]My secret is that I am already wallowing in self misery and will continue to do so regardless of anything I try.[/quote]
Change the first word to "Your" as a reply to Pinback and I think you have defined his entire existence. It might even apply to me, but...
[quote="RetroRomper"]Point of the game is to force you to really think about what you need. [/quote]
You haven't really defined "need." Like with the other thread, if we only ate what we "need," then we could survive on beans and rice, plus water, indefinitely (as in, for decades). But it would probably be boring. I love macaroni and cheese but I wouldn't want to eat it for 3 meals a day or even every day.
So lets look at it this way. You need: a bed, pillows, pillow cases, sheets, a blanket or quilt;a chair; one "pair" each of shoes, socks, pants; one shirt, one spoon, one knife, one fork, one plate, one bowl; food of whatever you eat for however often you shop; and any tools you need to perform your occupation or whatever you do to earn enough to pay your rent/mortgage, heating and cooling, and food.
That is all you "need", but it would be... boring.
Now, add to that the stuff you want to have around to make things easier (like underwear, for example). And that is where you can look for stuff that is not making your life easier or isn't necessary for your comfort or survival. Other things you keep around but don't help you (or your family) are clutter. If you have something, even if you have many of them, and they help you, then they're not clutter. Let me give you an example.
I have a device, about 3 feet long, has a 1" around rod made of solid aluminum, has a rubber-coated magnetized claw on one end and a plastic squeeze handle on the other. Costs 20 bucks at Home Depot, it's called a Nifty Nabber. Actually I don't have one, I have three of them. Much nicer than those cheap folding devices because it will easily pick up 5 pounds and short of rolling over it in a wheelchair you can't bend them.
I use it so I can pick up things, and it is a big improvement when something is beyond arm's reach or is awkward or difficult to pick up by hand when you're in a wheelchair. I recommend them even for people who can walk, because if you ever drop something into a place too small for your arm to reach it, you'll discover it's the best twenty bucks you ever spent.
I have to replace one every year or so because I'm hard on them; if you're not in a wheelchair with a combined 600+ pound weight that can bend or snap aluminum easy, you'll probably get 5 or ten years of use out of one of them.
I don't have 3 of them because I'm a pack rat, I have three of them so I can leave one next to the bed, I can have one in the bathroom, and one in the living room/kitchen (and because occasionally I break one). When I took the four hour pass from the rehabilitation center to come home, it was one of the first things I picked up to take with me. Even my tablet Windows computer, Android tablet and phone charger were second, third and so on.
Now what you have to decide is, are the things you have necessary for survival or convenient and make things easier for you to live.
I have a suggestion on how to decide how to determine that in a separate thread.